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Midlife can be challenging for multiple reasons, so if you're feeling lost or trapped or unhappy, you're not broken and you're far from alone. You're just human.
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We Need to Break the Stuck/Drift Cycle
Many men hit a stage in midlife when, despite outwardly successful and comfortable lives, they feel a persistent sense of emptiness, drift and disconnection. This deeply familiar yet often unspoken experience of feeling ‘stuck’ is pervasive and existential, as though life is slipping away without clear direction or meaning.
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The Drift: Why So Many Men Feel Lost Without Knowing Why
There’s a version of this you’ll probably recognise: Everything looks fine, the bills are paid, the responsibilities are met. From any reasonable outside perspective your life is working. You have things that other people want. You’ve built something. And yet… […]
Read More >>>Guest Post: This One Change Will Transform Your Sex Life
Guest Author: Ruth Ramsay, Sex and Intimacy Coach A bigger penis, Hollywood action hero looks, or the stamina of a porn star: have you ever fantasised about having any of these things, feeling sure they would make your sex life better? I’ve got good news for you: there’s a much more effective change you […]
Read More >>>You Were Never Meant to Do This by Yourself
Sometimes, exhaustion doesn’t come from long hours or hard work. It comes from pretending. From carrying yourself like you’ve got it all under control when, underneath, something feels off. From […]
Read More >>>The Moment Men Realise They Don’t Have to Pretend Anymore
There is a particular kind of tiredness that many men carry through midlife. It is not just physical fatigue, and it is not solved by a good night’s sleep or […]
Read More >>>The Upwards Happiness Curve Nobody Tells You About
We grow up assuming life satisfaction should climb steadily with age. Work hard, build a career, find love, raise a family, earn more money…and happiness will follow. But real life […]
Read More >>>If Midlife Feels Empty, You’re Asking the Wrong Questions
Something quietly shifts as you move through midlife. It’s not dramatic, and it doesn’t arrive with a trumpet fanfare. It’s more like waking up one morning and realising you’re less […]
Read More >>>News & Insights
Absorption A Key to Ageing Slowly
‘Flow’ is described as a state of deep focus where time disappears and attention becomes […]
Read More >>>The Unexpected Soundtrack of Getting Older
If you’ve noticed yourself making more involuntary noises – groaning when you stand up, sighing […]
Read More >>>LiveMore Lowers Minimum Mortgage Age from 50 to 40
A growing number of people in their 40s are struggling with mortgage debt and long-term […]
Read More >>>Middle Age Memory Loss May Be Impacted by Sweeteners
Regular consumption of artificial sweeteners may be linked to an increased risk of cognitive decline […]
Read More >>>ADHD as an Explanation for Brain Slowing
ADHD is often seen as a childhood condition, but growing evidence suggests it does not […]
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Book of the Month
THE LAWS OF CONNECTION
by DAVID ROBSON
The Laws of Connection is a powerful read if you feel emotionally disconnected. In midlife, friendships often thin out, conversations become transactional, and loneliness can creep in unnoticed. Robson draws on psychology and neuroscience to show what actually creates meaningful human connection. Read More >>>
Popular Middle Man Episodes
The Cost of People Pleasing
with Daniel Glyde
Many midlife men have a problem with saying 'yes'. In that they do it all the time out of habit, regardless of what's best for them.
How You Can Live a Soft Life
with Dr Sarah Nicholls
Living a 'soft life' is all about living in a way that reduces stress and priorities mental wellbeing, ease and personal fulfilment.
Add 10 Years to Your Life!
with Dr Federica Amati
Most content about what we should eat and how we should eat it is confusing. This is a down to earth way of being healthier and fitter.
Midlife Stories: Overcoming Self Doubt
with Simon Burgess
Self doubt and lack of confidence plague many midlife men, contributing to loneliness and poor mental wellbeing.
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If you run a conference or a corporate wellbeing initiative, I provide presentations that are both moving and inspiring. I have been speaking publicly 20 years, and my Middle Man presentations draw upon three core elements. The first is the lived experience of the 100+ men who have contacted me with their own experiences since I launched the show. The second is the collated wellbeing wisdom of all of the guests who have appeared on the show. And the third is my very personal story of my own midlife challenges, about which I talk openly and honestly. Find out more...
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