How to Live a Soft Life

Oct 23, 2024

A couple of years ago a trend called ‘the soft life’ started to emerge on the internet. But unlike most other internet trends, this one has particular relevance to midlife men, focusing as it does on emotional wellbeing and self-care.

A strong advocate for the soft life is Dr Sarah Nicholls, an A&E doctor, burnout coach and YouTuber who embraced this way of living after experiencing her own spell of burnout. This week Paul talks to Sarah about living a life that reduces stress and instead priorities mental wellbeing, ease and personal fulfilment. 

Sarah explains how adopting a soft life helped her manage anxiety and insomnia, and allows her to navigate stressful situations more calmly and productively. She talks about the value of making time for oneself and practising self-compassion, and about how adopting small daily habits can make a significant difference over time. 

The conversation also addresses the need to recognise and address chronic stress, which can lead to a loss of identity and joy. And it discusses how living a soft life is about making mindful decisions to create a more balanced, joyful, and fulfilling existence.

You can read the full transcript for this episode at www.middlemanpodcast.com/transcript-soft-life

I’d love to hear about your experiences, so if you’d like to get in touch email me at paul@middlemanpodcast.com and let me know what’s on your mind or sign up to the newsletter at www.middlemanpodcast.com

LATEST SHOWS

Why So Many Men Feel Lost in Midlife, with Jonathan Flynn

What happens when the life you worked so hard to build suddenly stops feeling like your own? Why ...

Midlife Stories: Grief, Recovery and Resilience, with Jase Rowe

Unresolved trauma can be incredibly tough to deal with when it shows up. Mental health issues, including serious ...

The Challenge of Connecting with Your Kids, with Bernadett Nagy

Many men feel pressure to become the father they wish they'd had. Others find connecting with their children ...

On the Brink: When Purpose and Connection Disappear, with Steve and Dan Shrigley

This special episode of Middle Man marks Mental Health Awareness Week. It covers the story of father and ...

Midlife Stories: When Enough is Enough, with Tom Jenkins

Lack of self-esteem, low self-worth and lack of confidence quietly plague many men as they transit through midlife. ...
Scroll to Top